the presence of friction necessary for development, since people may not agree with each other, but their dissimilar ideas will be devoid of hatred. People can criticize each other and still feel the overall harmonious flow on greater levels.
Conflict is often a source of enlightenment, but too much conflict breaks harmony. When мы рассматриваем, как планетарные позиции в одной карте влияют на планетарные позиции в другой, мы должны найти четкую разграничительную линию между трениями и различиями, необходимыми для роста, и теми видами конфликтов, которые могут в итоге разрушить совместимые взаимоотношения.
It is important to realize that the biological, psychological and social nature of a woman is different from that of a man.
Astrological aspects can have one meaning for one gender and a completely different meaning for another.
In the interpretation of aspects, given in this book, you need to carefully monitor which planet is in the chart of a man, and which is in the chart of a woman.
The astrologer never makes the final decision about whether a given relationship is workable. It is always the choice of the people involved.
It is more important to point out those areas in which these relationships will contribute to the harmonious development of each person, as well as those areas in which they can be harmful. Synthesis will show a slope in one or the other direction.
However, the question of whether to start or continue a relationship (or marriage) can only really be answered by asking yourself the question: “What role does this relationship play on the cosmic plane?” Do they help a person on his path? Do they help him to be more in harmony with his place in this world? Are they not harmful to the grand plan in which every person plays an important role?
Sometimes we have to experience relationships that seem incompatible, because something very important can be learned from them. Compatibility is possible on deeper levels, as we need inner growth and harmony with the universal design. If we can understand this, then what might ordinarily appear to be a destructive aspect can be interpreted as a "weed killer" without which the garden of love will not grow. Stereotypical "bad aspects" do not take away a person's sense of well-being. Instead, they symbolize tests and challenges so that we can grow in harmony with ourselves and our cosmic purpose as we go through this experience.
Orb of Influence

The traditional 8-9 degree orb allowed for natal aspects takes on a different meaning when we compare two separate charts. When люди взаимодействуют друг с другом, они вскоре обнаруживают, что, чем больше расстояние между двумя планетами, аспектирующими друг друга, тем труднее общаться. Conversely, when two planets form very close aspects (orb of 1-2 degrees), the effect is felt so strongly that there is often an interchange of personalities as the lessons are learned on more subtle subconscious levels. Knowing this, we can expect close aspects to show us the intense transformations taking place in relationships. Wider aspects will also have an effect, but it will often less significant.
Power of Aspects

The main aspects (compound, opposition, quadrature and trine) represent varying degrees of intensity. The strongest aspect is connection. Its effects are very strong even with an orb exceeding one or two degrees. If the orb does not exceed this value, the karmic interchange between two people will be so strong that it will force each person to focus on the meaning of the aspect.
The second strongest aspect is the opposition. A pulling force of opposite polarity causes each person to understand the energy that counteracts their sense of direction and purpose.
The next strongest aspects, squares, cause the tension necessary for growth, because they generate movement and activity. Trines, the weakest of the aspects, bring harmony that balances relationships because each individual has an energy that complements the other.
The proximity and kind of an aspect help determine its relative strength and reveal the exact nature of each relationship. A conjunction with a five degree orb will no doubt be felt more strongly than a trine with a four degree orb. A square with a five degree orb will be weaker than an opposition with a six degree orb. In order to determine the strength of any aspect, it is important to consider the proximity of the aspect, as well as the relative strength of that type of aspect, among other major aspects.
Aspects to inner planets

Aspects of the Sun

Sun conjunct the Sun
itт аспект создает естественную теплоту и влечение к сходной перспективе в life. There is a strong competitive tendency here, which can bring out the best in both individuals. Because two birthdays fall on the same day or within the same day of each other, there is some difficulty in balancing the relationship. The subjective experiences of both people may be so similar that one may be depressed or elated at the same time as the other. Other planets in the charts should be considered to see if the subjective energy will be balanced elsewhere.
Man's Sun conjunct Woman's Moon
This is a great combination to bring out the natural brilliance in a man, as the woman is receptive to it. Relationships will be dominated a man, but a woman can play a protective maternal role. This aspect brings insight and understanding to the partnership, as well as traditional marriage perspectives. These relationships have creativity and feeling, two necessary ingredients for a complete experience.
Woman's Sun conjunct Man's Moon
This aspect symbolizes a relationship dominated by a woman. Although there is a natural intimacy between the two individuals, the man eventually becomes the receptive follower of the woman. With this basis of relationships, various forms of resentment and indignation can manifest themselves. If a man can accept a role that reflects the light and strength of a woman, this aspect can be the basis for a compatible union.
Male Sun conjunct Female Mercury
This aspect enhances mental awareness and creates relationships based on good communication. In these relationships, a woman is valued more for her ability to express ideas than for her femininity. Since the Sun is the center of the solar system, the center of these relationships is a man. A woman finds that her ideas are easily accepted and encouraged due to the optimism coming from her partner.
Woman's Sun conjunct Man's Mercury
This aspect creates a relationship with a strong female dominant. A man may feel threatened in them because he is afraid of being reduced to the role of a child. He can learn a lot from a woman, as she appreciates him not for his sexuality, but for his mental potential. She will support him with warmth and optimism, helping to develop his mind.
Man's Sun conjunct Woman's Venus
This aspect indicates natural warmth and attention in relationships. At subconscious levels, habitual care takes place, much like the exchange between father and daughter. Perhaps material and spiritual wealth. The radiance of the Sun and the love symbolized by Venus come together to create a sense of harmony.
Woman's Sun conjunct Man's Venus
itт аспект появляется во взаимоотношениях, в которых мужчина, вероятно, был изнеженным в прошлой life. Now he must draw masculine strength from a strong woman. She represents the center of these relationships. Thanks to her "radiance" and support, his creative capabilities. The woman will continue to generate additional power because her subconscious animus figure will manifest through the man.
Man's Sun conjunct Woman's Mars
This aspect indicates an active and progressive relationship. A woman can draw strength from a man and take the necessary actions in life through the influence of a partner. There may be rivalry between them, but this energy can be transformed through a common interest in sports and activities. There may be an increase in sexuality, as a woman is attracted to physical and emotional competition with a partner.
Woman's Sun conjunct Man's Mars
In this aspect, the man tries to impress his partner because he perceives her sense of strength and pride as an obstacle that must be overcome. Possible aggressive sexuality. There is a strong urge for activity, achievement and progress. Two flames burn as one.
Male Sun Conjunct Female Jupiter
The result of this aspect can be an abundance or dispersion of energy, as it enhances and expands the experiences of both individuals. The man is focused, while the woman strives for freedom. Along with positive energy, there may be some disappointment on the part of the man. He thinks he should hold on to his space firmly. A woman, on the other hand, feels both the urge to run away and the attraction to her partner. With this aspect, they may want to pursue great wealth or invest their energies in higher education.
Woman's Sun conjunct Man's Jupiter
This beneficial aspect fills the relationship with hope and optimism. Both individuals feel a sense of freedom and enjoy the opportunity to share with each other. Wisdom and respect are combined with a healthy competitive spirit that adds vitality to these relationships. This is a powerful aspect of growth that can lead to material and spiritual wealth. The coin is shiny on both sides.
Man's Sun conjunct Woman's Saturn
This aspect creates a sober relationship based on the soundness of female discretion. The overflowing energy of a man is restrained by the mature wisdom of his partner. Role-playing is possible here, as a woman tends to subconsciously project an image of her father onto her partner. As a result, she performs karma by teaching him how to develop a strong sense of inner security and confidence. The strength of this aspect can help a relationship get through the most difficult obstacles, as a woman's sense of values ​​and judgment (from the past) are added to whatever her