Everyone is vying about the materiality of our thoughts: parents, psychologists, doctors, leaders – yes, anyone.

The topic “How to materialize thoughts” is in the top 10 on various sites, often having nothing to do with psychology and self-development.

It is really difficult for a non-professional to understand the topic and fish out useful information among a billion extra letters. I tried to do it for you.

How else to materialize these thoughts?!

About a month ago, in public transport, I became an involuntary listener of a conversation between two friends.

One girl quite loudly and emotionally told another that she was so tired of life’s failures, lack of money and love, that she decided to sign up for a two-week psychological training.

The theme “Materialize your thoughts and then they will definitely come true” was a red line through all 10 lessons.

“I,” says the course student, “wrote everything down. For six months now I have been doing all the exercises every day, and things are still there. ”

A friend, of course, tried to console her, assuring her that everything would be fine, and I thought about the fact that I had heard and read this more than once from people who seem to be ready to change their lives, but something doesn’t work out for them.

I don’t know exactly what the problem of the girl from the minibus is (there was a bad coach or she just uses his advice incorrectly), but I think it’s more likely that everything is in the complex.

Psychologists, authors of articles sometimes do not quite accurately form advice on how to materialize their thoughts, and readers, not wanting to get to the bottom of the matter, simply customize them for themselves. Bottom line: The Universe simply cannot understand what you want from it!

What prevents us from materializing our thoughts?

It is only thoughts that make a person unhappy or happy, not external circumstances. By controlling his thoughts, he controls his happiness.

Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche

In our world there is an interesting category of people, very numerous, by the way.

These men and women are not stupid, not lazy, ready to learn and even try something new. But for success, they always lack something: perseverance, courage, riskiness. They rarely get to the bottom of the problem and are likely to prefer “a bird in the hand than a crane in the sky.” It is this category of people who complains more often than others: “Your psychological methods don’t work! There I tried with my friend Vasya and – no you success!”

Especially for them, I give 3 mistakes that they make in their desire to materialize their thoughts.

3 mistakes, why it is not possible to materialize thoughts?
Wrong message.

Here, for example, your personal life does not add up. And you, instead of signaling to the Universe: “I want to meet a nice guy,” you complain daily: “I’m lonely. This is so bad”.

The universe catches the word “lonely” from your whining and voila – your personal life continues to limp on both legs.

Wrong attitude.

Even doctors who do not recognize anything but science confirm that those who sincerely believe that they will get rid of the disease have a much greater chance of recovering than pessimists.

If you really want something, then convince yourself, first of all, that everything will come true. And then: “Oh, I’m such a skeptic. I only believe in what I can feel. Why don’t my thoughts materialize?

Wrong wording.

For some reason, in a store, you first look at the assortment of goods, and only then go up to the saleswoman and say: “Give me a pound of shortbread cookies with condensed milk.” You do this because you know for sure that if you approach the seller with a babble: “I want something sweet, and maybe not very sweet, in general, I don’t know what I want”, then spend half an hour in the store and find certain death at the hands of other customers standing in line behind you.

And the Universe should deal with your incomprehensible babble and instantly give what you need?

5 practical tips on how to materialize your thoughts

We figured out the main mistakes that prevent people from achieving what they want, and now I want to teach you what to do in order to accurately materialize your thoughts:

Visualize desires.

Nobody has come up with anything more effective than this technique. If you have a good imagination, then you can draw pictures of the future right in your head.

For example, do you dream of a trip to Italy? Imagine this very journey every day to the smallest detail. You will not have time to look back, as you will buy the desired tour.

The technique of transferring your thoughts to paper works great: make a collage of desires, draw your dream, describe it with words in a diary, do at least something before you start whining that the Universe does not hear you!

Materialize your thoughts with the right phrases.

Particles “Not” is best avoided altogether, as it is poorly perceived by the Universe. Instead of the message: “I don’t want to get sick anymore,” higher powers will hear that you really enjoyed lying in bed with a sore throat.

It is correct to say: “I want to always be healthy!”

Away from the negative.

If you want your evil boss to break her leg and leave you alone, at least for the period of her sick leave, then the Universe may hear you. But the consequences will be sad not only for your leader, but also for yourself. Negativity and evil attract their own kind, there is such a boomerang law!

Do not control the fate of others.

You can materialize only your own thoughts.

The universe will remain deaf to calls: “I want my husband to find a well-paid job”, “I want my mother to win the lottery.”

Instead of making wishes for others, it is better to teach people close to you how to materialize your thoughts correctly.

Dream real.

Fairy tales about Cinderellas who became princesses are, of course, charming and more than one generation of girls will grow up on them. But only a few become princesses, and any woman who has made every effort can become rich and successful.

You can meditate on a three-story villa in Spain, but start fulfilling your dream by buying a one-room apartment in your city.