The instinct of procreation is inherent in man as well as in all living things. For the implementation of procreation, a sexual act is necessary. That is, these two inherent human instincts are inextricably linked.

So the woman gets pregnant. But she will find out about it only after 2-3 weeks, when there will be a delay in the next menstruation. And before that, she continues her daily life, including sexual intercourse with her husband or lover. But, as soon as she visits a antenatal clinic doctor, who diagnoses pregnancy, there is a strict, truly puritanical, ban on sex. Thus, one of the natural needs, such as breathing, eating, etc., is artificially alienated from the woman (and her partner).

In fact, if the pregnancy is not aggravated by the threat of termination, then a normal sexual life is not contraindicated for her. And the fear of “breaking something” is completely unfounded. Having sex up to 15 weeks (3.5 months) is also justified by the increased sexual desire in the early period.

That is, just as there are no restrictions in the regimen, clothing, diet at the beginning of pregnancy, so there can be no restrictions in sex either – neither in the frequency of sexual acts, nor in their characteristics. An embryo, when it consists of several tens or hundreds of cells, does not change the female body one iota. Therefore, the desire to protect the fetus in early pregnancy is unreasonable.

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Let me repeat myself: all of the above is true only under the condition of an uncomplicated course of pregnancy.

An embryo up to 13-14 weeks needs spermatozoa as a high-protein nutrient and building material.

The sexual life of spouses or lovers during pregnancy is psychologically and organizationally greatly facilitated and freed by the fact that protection from pregnancy is no longer required (no pills, gum, creams, candles), only the joy of communicating with each other.

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During pregnancy, hygiene is especially important for a woman. An intimate toilet 2 times a day is not only desirable, but also strictly required. This also applies to the sexual partner.

With the further development of pregnancy (4-7 months), some restrictions begin due to an increase in the abdomen. You just need to change the postures, giving preference to postures from behind (on the side or “on all fours”). Well, the intensity sex needs some reduction. All these conditions must be met in the last, third trimester (7-9 months).

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Childbirth and the postpartum period

2-2.5 weeks before the expected date of birth, you should refrain from sexual activity. During this period, the fetal head is already very close to the exit from the cervix. When having sex during this period, there is a great danger of causing the onset of premature labor or premature outflow of water.

But now, finally, you become happy parents. For as long as 6 weeks after childbirth, one must refrain from sexual activity, the risk of infection is high, because. the uterus after childbirth is a continuous wound surface. Sex is strictly forbidden, because the woman’s uterus and birth canal must return to normal: the uterus will shrink to its normal size; soft tissue injuries heal.

When, finally, this ban is lifted, the seemingly long-forgotten problem of preventing the next pregnancy comes to the fore.

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In our difficult time, when we are all far, far away from nature, and the environment is in a catastrophic state, like our bodies, even a breastfeeding woman, in the absence of menstruation, can become pregnant.

Contraceptive methods must be taken care of even during the period of forced abstinence. Now there are microdosed preparations that do not affect either the quality and quantity of milk, or the development of your baby.

The size of your genitals, dear young mothers, will never be the same as before childbirth. As a result of stretching during the passage of the fetus, the birth canal expands, is injured by cracks, ruptures, and this makes the dimensions somewhat wider. Plastic surgery can help restore the previous size, but if you plan to have more children, then the meaning of such an operation is completely lost: at the next birth, the result of not the cheapest operation will be reduced to zero.

If your son or daughter was born by caesarean section, then the period of abstinence from sexual activity is even longer (as much as 8-10 weeks), and contraception should be even more reliable. Only modern microdosed hormonal preparations can provide such reliability. But the female genital tract remains the same as before childbirth.

Very gentle, loving, safe sex, like nothing else, can protect a woman from widespread postpartum depression.

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Dear men, never force your spouse to have sex after giving birth if she doesn’t want to. You must be especially affectionate and patient with her.

In conclusion, I want to say in the words of the Bible: “Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the promised land.”