a harsh reality. Who wins this fight? Who becomes the woman for whom the best men are ready to fight?

For an answer to these questions, let's remember that in any science there is a standard. There are physical standards stored in the International Bureau of Weights and Measures, and there are psychological standards. These are the behaviors and states that every sane person should strive for if they want to live not only efficiently, but also happily. I will try to outline the perspective - to give a psychological portrait of a reference woman. Elite woman. Elite, of course, not in the sense that she is a socialite who knows how to subtly intrigue and scandal, but in psychological and spiritual terms. Synonyms: an ideal woman, a queen woman, a woman with a capital letter, a woman worth her weight in gold, a dream woman, an angel woman, a woman that the best men dream of, and so on. In the future, I will use them all.

The psychological feature of such women is, oddly enough, in the first place, the installation is not on external beauty, but on the mind. They are truly educated, erudite, and most importantly - always in development! You can’t fool them with advice: “be a little stupid.” They understand that the calls of women's trainings: “allow yourself to be a woman” is a cheap manipulation.

It's true, men love fools, but the word "love" in this case must be quoted, since they do this for a short time (about one or two times), but never to respect them. A smart woman for her man can portray a fool when it is appropriate and fun, but her main style of behavior is status and self-respect. Without listening to slogans calling for “turning off her head”, she behaves “with her head” in any situation, she is reasonable, she knows her goals perfectly, and she has developed self-control.

A smart woman always knows her needs, and at the same time she subtly feels the needs of other people, she knows how to look at everything from a distance and see distant prospects. She knows how to selflessly take care of everyone. She is self-confident, she has the courage to value herself and declare her desires, she dares to be demanding, being able to defend her legitimate interests from the list of what is realistic to achieve. She knows perfectly well what the rules, agreements and format in a relationship are, and she will never allow disrespect for herself.

Of course, an elite woman is a leader, but she demonstrates this tactfully and implicitly, using positive manipulations as well - so that a man next to her will always feel respected and significant. She knows how to raise the self-esteem of loved ones, support their best aspirations, make them great and strong people.

There is one "bearded" anecdote on this topic. The President of the United States and his wife drive up to the gas station. And there, the first love of the president's wife works as a tanker. And the president says: "If you married him, you would now be the wife of a tanker." To which she replies: “You are mistaken, dear. If I married him, he would be the President of the United States now.”

Behind every great man is she - a woman worth her weight in gold!

A reference woman is distinguished by culture, good breeding and good manners. She has a soft voice, correct pronunciation, smooth movements and beautiful soft gestures. The queen is taste and style, which does not interfere with sexuality, but only emphasizes it and creates the right background for the use of the female military arsenal. The queen knows how to win men - the best men!

Such simple things as honesty and a family attitude are beautiful decorations for an elite woman. For her man, she is a muse and companion. Among decent people, such a woman chooses a man with both her mind and her heart, she knows how to love faithfully and wisely, building relationships in such a way that there is no place for jealousy and sick attachments in them. She knows how to love and chooses only those whom she definitely deserves to love.

Yes, she is loving and caring, but her love is wise and picky. In her love, she is not sticky, such a woman knows how to be with a man when he needs it, but does not take care of him from morning to evening, not knowing anything else in her life. Love and care are not the whole content of her life. The ideal woman is a person, she, in addition to caring for a man, has her own interests and her own big life, at least she can have it. She will not fall in love with someone unknown, but will choose to take care only of a real man. By the way, men truly appreciate only such love: if a woman in her life has nothing but a man, if she still has nothing else to do without him, the price of her care is small.

And, of course, a woman who has the psychological qualities of a standard cannot be ugly. After all, outer beauty is a manifestation of inner beauty. Harmony, serenity and joy will be her habitual states. Therefore, such a woman will definitely be beautiful on the outside! She will look after herself and be in good physical shape [2].

A smart woman will not use cheap, and even sophisticated, manipulative techniques. She understands that showing respect to a man is even more in her interest than in his. She is very well aware that a man enslaved and deprived of initiative is ineffective in society and in the family, unhappy, and therefore unacceptable to her. Weak men who can be controlled and urged on are not interesting to her. Such a woman will direct all her talent not to crush a man, but to inspire him, to grow wings in him so that he can rise as high as possible. So it's better for both. She is not afraid that after that the man will leave her, this is simply impossible. After all, she rises with him. She loves, respects and accepts her man as he is, does not want to train him and is always ready to be his ally.

The best women in the world usually do not sit at home like behind a stone wall, that is, they do not insolently parasitize on men. But they do not climb into the male external sphere of competence.

They are active, but in their own area. They control the back of the family's life. Education of children and grandchildren. Household. Communications. Gen. They monitor purchases and various types of work (repairs, purchase of furniture, home design). On them - the organization of rest, leisure. Etc. This is their social, cultural and educational rear activity. At first, while there are no or few children, women usually participate in the husband's business or continue to go to work. But as soon as the family grows, they take over the entire rear, freeing the man to perform external functions. This is the most efficient type of family in the modern world. Semi-affiliate - semi-traditional. The principle is extremely simple: the more activity for the benefit of the family, the stronger and more prosperous it is. Accordingly, the more time and energy spent outside the family and on their own selfish entertainment, the weaker the family. If an hour of time is spent by a woman on idle shopping, watching a soap opera, or on low-paid work that is meaningless for the family budget, which only takes energy from a woman without bringing her moral satisfaction, then this very hour is not used for the benefit of the family and childrenstolen from them. Therefore, I am convinced that work, social activity, the business of real women is the family [1].

I hope I managed to draw a fairly detailed portrait of the standard. Women are worth their weight in gold. If you don’t feel like that (yet you don’t), this is not a reason to tear your hair out or get depressed. Don't let your low self-esteem convince you that nothing will work out. A long journey begins with the first step, and you have already taken it by opening this book. You will never be the same as before! The English say well: “Keep going!” Don't stop, keep moving!

How to become a queen. The main secret
Before we get into the details of the techniques presented in this book, let me give you one very important idea. Having understood, realized and introduced it into the daily practice of life, you can really get very, very much.

This million dollar idea sounds like this: the task of the ideal woman is to always be satisfied!

Not counting on a complete and unconditional understanding of this invaluable idea and being ready even for aggressive rejection (“Am I, an oligofrench, to be always satisfied?”), I will reveal it in more detail. The fact is that such a task is not only for a woman, and it concerns not only the topic of relationships. This is the goal of any person and the goal of life in general.

What happens when a person is happy? He is cheerful, full of energy, optimistic, joyful, psychologically healthy, that is, happy. Isn't happiness the ultimate goal of our lives?! I think there is not a single person who would refuse this magical energy. Being happy, every second we express our gratitude to the Creator for the life given