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Ольга Княгиня » 22 Jan 2018, 17:06
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Smart women don’t sleep alone, or How to hit the jackpot in your personal life. Tatyana Andreevna Shishkina

the relationship of the parents afloat. I must say that Peter's wife is a rare bore. She constantly scandals and arranges showdowns.

Peter earns well and does not refuse her anything. He has such important qualities for a man as (add):

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He is very attentive to a woman and always

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As a lover, Peter is beautiful, he subtly feels the female body and

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He loves to do

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And he does not like to refuse a woman.

He loves to travel, loves beautiful gestures and most importantly - he loves you.

But!

Unfortunately, your relationship with Peter has no future! He is married and has no plans to divorce. And here you are standing in front of a sorceress who is ready to give you a fateful meeting with your future husband. But you need to literally describe in a nutshell what it should be. Or give a prototype, or a clear example of whom to sculpt the groom.

Your Answer:

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When I give such an exercise, most women happily exclaim: “I like Peter, I like Peter, only ...” (add what to exclude).

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Again, 40% of women write “only younger, more generous, smarter, slimmer, and so on.”

Another 55% of women demand the same, but free.

And only 5% think about the decency of Peter, who has long been cheating on his wife.

When I work with women dating married men, this is what I often hear. “I already want to break up with him. He is married. We do not have a future. I'm in pain. But I understand everything. What next man do I want? Yes, just like that one. Only free."

And the emphasis on the fact that he "walks" from his wife, few people do. And when a woman suddenly meets the same, then she is very surprised why she suddenly found herself in the role of deceived wives.

Important!
Be careful with your desires. Or at least just be more careful when you think of them.

Once in my life an incident happened. Every New Year I have a tradition: I start a notebook and write down what I would like to gain in these twelve months. Of course, as a free girl with a passionate nature, I wanted to meet my love, so I carefully wrote in a notebook: “I want to meet a caring husband, a loving father who loves me passionately ...”

And I met. He really loved me passionately. He did not skimp on compliments or gifts. And he really was a caring husband and a loving father. BUT! Someone else's caring husband and loving father of not our children.

It was funny and sad from such a 100% hit.

Probably, you also had cases when life played cruel jokes with you.

I am sure that, choosing a dress for all occasions, you would not allow such flaws.

Will there be enough for all the princes?
Have you heard the phrase: “There are not enough princes for everyone”?

Many girls repeat it from childhood. Parents are too worried about our hearts, so in this way they are trying to take us away from unnecessary disappointments. Of course, why hope that you will someday meet the man of your dreams, but what if this does not happen? Then you will be girls all your life.

Why believe that you will have mutual love?! According to the scenario of fearful educators, this, in principle, cannot happen to you! Why? Yes, because the prince will definitely leave you, and you will be heartbroken.

And in general, what is there. Everyone wants princes, and there won't be enough for everyone.

And many believe. Another half of these "many" settle for less. Well, there are no princes. Here, at least a poor one, at least a shepherd, but his own! Anything is better than one.

And few people think that everyone has their own prince. And in the very word "prince" people put different meanings!

Let's check?

Exercise «Мой принц»
Describe your prince.

1. Hair color

2. How tall is he

3. Eye color

4. It works

5. Income from

6. He lives in

7. In his spare time he

8. He is _______ years old.

9. The most important thing for him in life

10. Most of all he appreciates in a woman

11. The most important thing in the family for him

12. He hates relationships

13. He definitely shouldn't

14. And then I will be with him

Now call any of your girlfriends and ask her the same the most questions. Do not be shy! Do it right now.

1. Hair color

2. How tall is he

3. Eye color

4. It works

5. Income from

6. He lives in

7. In his spare time he

8. He is _______ years old.

9. The most important thing for him in life

10. Most of all he appreciates in a woman

11. The most important thing in the family for him

12. He hates relationships

13. He definitely shouldn't

14. And then I will be with him

Now look what other women wrote about it.

Elizabeth, 30 years old

1. Hair color: блондин.

2. How tall is he: от 170 см.

3. Eye color: не имеет значения.

4. It works: техническая специальность.

5. Income from: 100000 рублей.

6. He lives: in Kazan.

7. In his spare time he: занимается спортом.

8. He is 35 years old.

9. The most important thing for him in life: я.

10. Most of all he appreciates in a woman: доброту и честность.

11. The most important thing in the family for him: любовь.

12. He hates relationships: ревность.

13. He definitely shouldn't курить.

14. And then I will be with him счастливой.

Svetlana, 23 years old

1. Hair color: главное – не лысый.

2. How tall is he: 185–190 см.

3. Eye color: голубые.

4. It works: бизнесмен.

5. Income from: 1 млн рублей.

6. He lives: in London.

7. In his spare time he: путешествует.

8. He is 30 years old.

9. The most important thing for him in life: отношения.

10. Most of all he appreciates in a woman: красоту.

11. The most important thing in the family for him: быть вместе.

12. He hates relationships: однообразие.

13. He definitely shouldn't: изменять.

14. And then I will be with him: любящей и спокойной.

Maria, 42 years old

1. Hair color: лысый.

3. What is his height: 175 cm.

4. Eye Color: Doesn't matter, but I love brown eyes.

2. It works: it doesn't matter.

5. Income from: 300 000 рублей.

6. He lives: in Moscow.

7. In his spare time he: со мной.

8. He is 45-55 years old.

9. The most important thing for him in life: отношения.

10. Most of all he appreciates in a woman: аккуратность, преданность.

11. The most important thing in the family for him: уважение.

12. He hates relationships: ссоры и истерики.

13. He definitely shouldn't быть алкоголиком.

14. And then I will be with him самой счастливой.

Please note that each of these three women puts completely different concepts into the word "prince".

I'll tell you more, I handed out about 100 questionnaires with these questions. And among these 100 there was not one - NOT ONE!!! - the same profile!

And you say that there won't be enough princes for everyone?!

Enough if only because we all need completely different men.

Someone loves bald people, someone can not stand them. For some, the income of a man is important, for some it is not. Yes, what can I say! Our princes live in different cities.

And it's not a fact that the man of your dreams is also someone else's dream.

Now pay attention to points 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12. These are your values. This is what is important to you, which is why you want to see it in the other person.

How much you pay or paid attention to these things when you wrote about what kind of man you want to meet.

Important!
But, no matter how you twist it, one thing keeps us in a relationship - common values. And nothing else.

As long as common values ​​are alive, relationships breathe. As soon as values ​​become different, people either diverge or move away from each other.

About men and our fantasy
Write your opinion about these men. Answer the questions after the description. Fantasize. It doesn't obligate you to anything.

Valentine is 26 years old. He is a young banker. All his life he dreamed of working with numbers. He is scrupulous. He is clear. A bit of a bore, but likes to get to the bottom of the truth. Valentine tall. Slightly stooped, with kind eyes. He dreams of meeting a woman whom he will marry and have three children. Valentin loves dogs and dreams of a big house.

How do you think:

1. What does Valentine like to read?

2. How does he spend his free time?

3. What qualities does he value in a woman?

4. What is the most important thing for him in a relationship?

5. What is he afraid to face?

Dmitry divorced a couple of years ago. His life is no different from most businessmen. House. Job. House. Job. He has little time for women. Yes, and Dmitry does not know how to care. To attract his attention, a woman must show activity and interest herself. He values ​​loyalty, devotion and good manners. But it is difficult for a woman to open up to him.

How do you think:

1. Why is it difficult for him to open up to a woman?

2. Why is Dmitry a bachelor?

3. Does he have a woman?

4. Is Dmitry ready to be a faithful family man?

5. Does he like children?

Oleg is a young and promising politician. He loves women and women love him. He actively meets and beautifully looks after. He likes to conquer new hearts and master new bodies. After each new conquered passion, Oleg sticks another flag into the world map. It seems to him that this is how he becomes free and strong.

1. How old do you think Oleg is?

2. How many women did he have?

3. Is Oleg in love with someone?

4. Why do women love Oleg?

5. How do you see Oleg's beautiful courtship?

Now let's step up the experiment!

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