pressed tightly against each other, we feel our warmth and the beating of our hearts. We completely merge with each other, kissing wildly and rolling in a fit of passion on the bed.

You wrap your legs around my body, and now I feel your wet hole, into which my penis certainly wants to penetrate.

I penetrate you - you moan with desire. You throw your head far back and rush to me towards his aroused tight chest. I start to move - you love so - hard and hard. Ah, it's so good. Yes, back and forth, back and forth.

Now we kiss passionately in French. I can feel your wet warmth surrounding my penis and I can feel the walls of your vagina tightening around it. Ah, the tension becomes so unbearable that I pour out all my desire with the last strong blow and discharge into you with a loud moan ...

Marriage is not a guarantee of good sex

Marriage does not guarantee either love or good sex, especially for a long time. He gives partners an unconscious feeling like, “Now I'm sure. Now nothing else will happen. Now I don't have to work so hard." This is a very dangerous feeling!

You fell in love with someone who matched your expectations regarding appearance and character. You fell in love with someone who complimented you, who was attentive to you, who tried to please you and who has approximately the same life horizons and interests as you.

But who did your “someone” become after 5 years? In what direction has he/she changed, and how much have you changed?

There were those relationships that suited the partners, allowing them to spend many years together and leading to the fact that they were married. But after some time, people suddenly cease to understand each other. Love is gone. The habit has turned into indifference. Why?

The partners decided that they no longer need to "strain": the partner is now forever and certainly belongs to them. There is no longer a need to carefully monitor your appearance. Often over the years, the figure does not change for the better. Spouses begin to find fault and grumble - to demonstrate their mood, their "character", they begin to neglect each other. Compliments, small gifts and surprises appear less and less.

As a result, the feeling of falling in love becomes less and less of it - until it disappears. The desire to give one's love also decreases and eventually disappears completely.

Why should I love a person who, almost all day long, finds fault with me for no reason, reproaches me, accuses me of something, criticizes or reproaches me? Wouldn't it be better to be with someone who loves me, is gentle with me and attentive to whom I deliver joy?

Marriage inspires a certainty that cannot really exist. Relationships can develop and bring joy to partners only when there is a certain uncertainty. If I'm not good enough (not better than the competition), he/she can pack up his things tomorrow and end our relationship. The market exists, and competition does not disappear just because partners are married. Both partners should try every day to make their relationship lively and attractive - otherwise this relationship will not last long.

What happens when a relationship runs out of steam? Sex becomes more colorless and rarer, and you find yourself in a vicious circle. If sex becomes a routine duty, then other relationships gradually lose their attractiveness and, in the end, all meaning. This means that both partners show more and more dissatisfaction, as they are no longer satisfied with each other. This is followed by a decline in physical attraction. The desire to go to bed with a partner or exchange tenderness is becoming less and less.

Conclusion: Only partners whose relationships are loving and independent can have good sex. Only when a partner does not get tired of fantasizing and trying new things is he interesting, and in any respect. If partners live always taking into account the "market of competition", they will never be careless towards each other, on the contrary, they will always do something to develop their relationship so that every morning they want to continue their connection.

The opportunity to be happy needs to be supported and developed, no one gets it on a silver platter.

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The role of compliments in sexual relationships

Jochen and Yana have been living together for four years. Both said that sex for them gradually ceased to be the same wonderful way of spending time as at the beginning of their relationship, but they still loved each other very much. Sex turned into a quick number for them, which always went the same way.

Yana also said that she has complexes and she does not like to do “this” in the light, she feels best in the bedroom when the light comes from outside. But even then she cannot indulge in sex the way she actually would like to. She is of the opinion that she is not particularly attractive. By the way, I'm all right I don't think. She is very pretty, she has dark long hair, lovely big brown eyes and a slim figure. The problem, in fact, was that no one had told her for a long time that she was good. Jochen confessed to her only at the beginning of their relationship, how wonderful she is and what a wonderful figure she has.

But when they began their life together, the compliments, unfortunately, stopped. He often began to find fault with her: either the trousers did not suit her - they were too fat; then the pullover is too tight - it draws attention to her now, for some reason, too small breasts.

Yana's self-confidence was declining day by day. She felt unattractive, and her insecurities began to be expressed in her demeanor and dress as well. She began to experience complexes in bed and lost the ability to find pleasure in sex, as she began to be embarrassed by her body and could not use it properly.

Then one evening Jana met Mike. Mike was constantly complimenting her. After several meetings, she decided to have an intimate relationship with him, and they had several wonderful nights. Jana felt attractive again with Mike, her self-confidence increased. But she knew that although everything was wonderful with Mike, she still loved her Jochen.

The betrayals continued for about five months. During this time, Yana "refueled" with such a palpable self-confidence that she now knew for sure how attractive she was and how erotically she could use her body to have great sex.

This was reflected, of course, also in sex with Jochen. For both, intimate relationships again became more and more harmonious, full of fantasy, desire and passion.

One night stand

Jeannette and Peter have come to terms with the fact that their relationship in bed is no longer as exciting as it used to be. It didn't cause either of them too much inconvenience, but they didn't find it wonderful either.

Peter met another woman and had a "one night stand" with her. For him, it was so amazing that he no longer wanted to refuse wonderful sex. Encouraged by this one night, he yearned more for better sex with his beloved woman. Without thinking for a long time, he began to act.

Peter decorated the bedroom and created a more romantic atmosphere in it. He began to shower again his beloved woman with passionate kisses, which she appreciated at the beginning of their relationship, pampered her with full body massages and invited her to try new things.

Peter's adultery was justified in that it became possible to renew the sexual desires and feelings of both partners, and Jeannette and Peter were able to give themselves wonderful hours of intimacy.

2. New trend of mental sex

Real sex starts in the head

More than 50% of women and men in Germany between the ages of 20 and 30 are dissatisfied with their sex life. What is the reason?

It would seem that getting excited in our time is not a big deal for anyone. Television works in this direction, which makes erotic programs for any, the most whimsical and refined taste, there are a lot of all kinds of erotic magazines, special clubs for sexual interests, and much, much more. Today you can do whatever you want, you can be bi-, hetero- or homosexual. Everything that gives pleasure is allowed. But despite this, according to surveys in Germany and the United States, the average frequency of sexual contacts among the adult population of these countries is declining dramatically.

For some, sex has unfortunately become "cute fun"; for others, it's just too tiring and demanding. Some don't have the ideas and fantasies to make their sex exciting, or hesitate to express their wishes.

I will give two examples.

Mike, 24: “I want sex more than she does. As a result, everything happens in such a way that I sleep with her only 4-5 times a month. For me, this is too little. I don't want to cheat on her, so I play a lot in my head or do it myself when I'm alone at home. Mental sex is a wonderful thing and quite accessible to everyone. I'm already excited about the future technical possibilities that will help solve the problems of people like me."

Yana, 27: “I can only have really good sex with the man I love. Since at the moment I am alone again and waiting for "my" man, I imagine a lot in my mind. With whom, where and how I would like to do it. Sole sex or one night stand is not for me. My heart must also say yes.