think of any house plant that you once bought for yourself or that someone once gave you? At first, you watered it regularly, fertilized it, and made sure that it stood in the right place and received enough sun. Then it grew and delighted you with its strong, healthy appearance, wonderful flowers. You probably told your friends about it and were proud.

But after some time, your interest faded, and you began to water and fertilize your once-beloved plant not so irregularly. You no longer looked at him lovingly, you didn't talk to him. As a result, the flower lost its brilliance, it no longer had the strength to produce wonderful flowers.

Unfortunately, similar metamorphoses occur with most relationships. Young people get to know each other and fall in love. Both partners do a lot to please each other. They take care of their appearance in order to please, and use their imagination to give their loved ones unforgettable moments and watch.

But after a while, when people become closer, perhaps even begin to live together, the relationship changes somewhat, although in most cases this is not immediately noticeable. Remember at your leisure how many compliments you received at the beginning of your relationship. And now? .. Perhaps, before you tried to present yourself as especially attractive and romantic? A?..

“Yes, it is,” you will probably say, “but it’s normal! Weekdays are coming, and you can’t be the same lovers all your life as at the beginning of a relationship.

And now I ask you: when were you happier - at the beginning of your relationship or now? Have you dreamed of always being as happy as you are? It probably sounds too bold, but it's possible!

The death of all good sex

The phenomenon of confidence in a partner

Have you ever been truly in love? But as soon as you notice that you can do anything with your lover/beloved and he/she says “yes” to everything and guesses your every desire at a glance, didn’t you quickly lose interest in him/her? And then, probably, looked around for someone else of interest to you and able to bring a certain amount of excitement into your life?

Learn to say "no"

Even in relation to sex. Tell your partner calmly one day that you have no desire to have sex today. What will you think about when he will try his best to convince you? Of course, you enjoy: there is no more beautiful feeling than to be ardently desired. And then... you will (perhaps) give in, allowing yourself to be persuaded and seduced into a hot night. Either way, your partner now knows that he has to put in some effort to get you into bed. Only what cannot be always arouses interest! And out of interest arises a desire, a desire for good sex!

Make it clear to your partner that you are also interested in others. Let your partner make every effort to keep you. In sex and love, the same laws apply as in a market economy: I choose a partner that satisfies me the most. It has always been so, even if everyone perceives the word “satisfaction” in their own way.

Be mysterious, amazing and unpredictable Variety maintains tone and desire, boredom and monotony lead to disappointment.

Ways you can persuade your dream partner to have sex

1. Have a glass of champagne while taking a hot candlelit bath together with light romantic music.

2. Line a path with burning candles that will lead to the bedroom, where you are already waiting in a seductive dezabile.

3. On a warm summer night, it is so romantic to sit on the balcony, comfortably wrapped in one blanket, and drink fine wine by candlelight.

4. Buy a new CD of romantic music to dance by candlelight after dinner.

5. Hide a small gift (it doesn't have to be expensive - a gesture is valued here) under your partner's pillow.

6. Buy a rose.

7. Sneak tickets and lure your partner to a theater or concert.

8. Have a romantic dinner.

9. Write her/him a love letter (can be email).

10. Seduce your partner into a wonderful full body massage.

11. Buy a new sex toy as a surprise and try it out together.

12. Invite your loved one (beloved) somewhere for the weekend.

13. Spend Sunday in bed, pamper yourself, get a massage, etc., serve breakfast in bed.

14. Rent an erotic movie and organize a TV night with treats, drinks, etc. d.

15. Persuade your partner for a romantic love night in nature (recommended only in the warm season). Take a blanket and a picnic basket with all kinds of fruits, as well as, perhaps, towels for erotic games in the water.

16. Stun the bedroom (or the living room if it's cozy enough) with flowers and seduce your partner on the floor; use different treats.

17. Купите различные сорта фруктов и овощей (а также шоколад, лакрицу, пудинг, мед и т. d.) для игры «Ты узнаешь этот плод?» and blindfold your partner; let your body feel the fruits first, and then let your partner enjoy them.

18. Prepare dinner for your treasure and serve a romantic table.

19. Offer your partner a role play. Reincarnate in roles that will give you pleasure. If you have prepared dinner for your partner, for example, pretend to be a waiter who will later seduce her.

20. Write erotic stories.

21. Tell your partner a spicy story over the phone.

22. Buy your partner clockwork gizmos from clothes and seduce each other.

23. Buy a bottle of special champagne or wine and just have a cozy evening.

24. Write your treasure a letter detailing all the things you like about her/him.

25. Have a particularly furnished and exciting bedroom.

Erotic story

Write a hot erotic story for your partner once, then place the letter meaningfully in his/her hand or send it by email. If you want to turn this into a game, you can keep writing stories. It will in any case be very exciting, and many find it extremely attractive to read these stories aloud.

For example, a short but hot story like this...

She told him:

I am sitting on the edge of the bed, wearing a blouse and tight-fitting short skirt. You are on your knees before me. I begin to caress my neck and slowly lower my hand towards the blouse, which I slowly unbutton. Leaning my head back, I caress my chest - while I slightly moan. My legs are slightly apart. I let you look up my skirt. You can only see the insides of my gorgeous thighs. Your desire to see more is getting stronger.

You no longer know where you should look - at my desire-filled face, at my hand manipulations under my blouse, or between my legs. I unbutton my blouse to the end, take it off, and then take off my black lace bra.

Now I am sitting in front of you only in a black short skirt, and you can contemplate how I, moaning, caress my chest.

Your trousers are already tight. Твой пенис тверd. While I continue to caress myself, you undress.

I watch you and see how you stroke yourself. When you take off your underpants, I see how hard and strong your penis is.

My hands are now traveling up the skirt, where my belly is, and a little lower. At the same time, my hips move slightly and enticingly. I tell you that you should watch and enjoy.

I slowly lift my skirt. You can admire my thighs, which are exposed more and more.

Finally you want to see all of me. You want to see where my thighs end. You want to see where you later penetrate with your penis, where you later pour out.

The skirt no longer obscures the view, and you can see my black lace panties.

I'm asking you to help me take them off. Gladly you fulfill my request. You take them off slowly.

My legs are opening wider. With legs wide apart, I am now lying in front of you, you see everything, you also see how I introduce myself first one and then two fingers into the vagina.

I stroke myself harder, moaning louder and asking you if you would like to look at me from behind so you can better see me massaging myself. You want, чтобы я повернулась. Now you can see everything. My seductive ass, my vagina that you would like to lick, and my fingers with which I caress myself. My hips move voluptuously...

He told her (continued):

...I see you now from behind. I move your fingers aside and start caressing your anus and vagina. You clearly feel my tongue, you feel how it massages your clitoris, how it sharply sticks into your hole from time to time. It's wonderful and I can hear you breathing heavily.

You are so excited that you would like to immediately feel me in yourself. But...

You want ртом приласкать мой пенис, поэтому ты скользишь по постели и поворачиваешься. I am on my knees with my legs wide apart at the level of your head, and my elastic cock is right in front of your face. You wrap your hand around it and take it into your mouth. I feel your wet warmth. You squeeze your penis tightly with your lips and let it slide in your mouth. Slowly at first, then faster and harder. I can feel you enjoy it as your breathing quickens. Now you carefully play with the tongue with the head of the penis. In doing so, you cover my testicles and massage them.

In the meantime, I satisfy you with two fingers. You can't take it anymore and you want to finally feel my penis burning with desire in you. At the same time, you yearn for how our bodies are