so I decided to tell her the truth:

"He just doesn't like you that much."

And you know this the truth is not so bitter at all, because you can't waste time on a person if he's not worth it. And when you keep searching and meet a man who loves you, you will definitely regret that you spent so much energy on Stinky the time eater or Freddy who never called.

I am not a doctor and do not pretend to be one. But my opinion should be heeded for at least one reason - I am a man who has dated women and is ready to tell you frankly about it. And since I am a man, I know what a man thinks and feels and how he acts. My duty is to tell you what we really are. It hurts me to watch gorgeous women burden themselves with shitty relationships.

If a man is really into you, he will let you know. He will call or visit you, he will want to meet your friends, he will not be able to take his eyes off you and will long to touch you. And when it's time for sex, he'll be just happy that you let him please you. And it doesn't matter at all if tomorrow at exactly four o'clock (at four in the morning, dear ladies!) He assumes the office of President of the United States, He will still come to you!

Men are not that complicated creatures, although we often try to convince you otherwise by saying things like: “I'm just going through a terrible period in my life right now. It's a total mess." Thinking about sex drives us crazy, even though we pretend it's not. "What? No, no, I listened to you very carefully." And to our regret (and to your surprise), it’s easier for us to jump out of the window of a city bus than to say: “You don’t suit me.” We are one hundred percent sure that in this case you will kill us or yourself, or both of us, or, even worse, start crying and screaming. We truly deserve compassion. But the fact remains: even if we do not talk about it, we clearly show you our attitude. If the guy does not call you when he promised, if he does not want to keep you, then here it is, the answer to your question. Stop making excuses for him, his actions speak, even scream for themselves: he just didn’t fall for you.

But don't despair ladies! Accept defeat and do not waste time in vain. Why languish in uncertainty when you can meet someone in whom you will have complete confidence? Don't want to hear about it? OK. Here's the answer you wanted: "Keep up with him, baby. He is not at all such a loser as everyone around says. If you wait, stop talking too much, call him at the right time and anticipate his mood swings, stop having illusions about your relationship and your sexual desires, then he will be yours!” But please don't be surprised when he leaves you or you find that your romance isn't giving you any pleasure.

We have already heard something similar, and you are hopelessly tired of it. Perhaps that is why you are now holding this book in your hands. You know that you deserve the attention of a worthy man. We agree with you. So grab a marker and let's go! Liz has already quoted my words: do not waste your beauty in vain!

Are you still dating the same guy?
Hey, I know the guy you're dating.

Yes this is true. This is the same guy who is terribly tired from work and is in terrible stress because of his current project. Most recently, he experienced a breakup in a serious relationship, which was a big blow for him. The divorce of his parents left an indelible mark on his soul and brought a lot of trouble; now he will also have to take care of his younger brothers and sisters. At the moment he needs to focus on his career. He cannot start a relationship with anyone until everything in his life gets better. He has just bought a new apartment and sees the upcoming move as a natural disaster. As soon as his situation improves, he will leave his wife, girlfriend, lousy job. Oh my god, he's such a complicated person!

This person is entirely woven from the excuses that you yourself come up with for him. And the moment you stop making excuses for his actions, he will disappear from your life. Can a man be so busy or heartbroken that it will prevent him from starting a new relationship? Yes, but there are so few such men that they should be classified as mythological characters of a big city. After all, a man would rather throw himself at the feet of a herd of angry elephants than admit to you that he doesn’t like you that much. That's why we wrote this book. We wanted to open your eyes to all these excuses so that you can see them for what they are - pathetic and unconvincing.

By the way, remember the movie in which the girl was waiting for the guy to invite her on a date, but he still did not invite, coming up with ridiculous excuses? Then she slept with him when they were both under the influence of alcohol, and began to follow him around until she sort of started dating. Then he cheated on her, and she suffered, knowing in the depths of her soul that if she forgives him and decides not to demand the impossible, but will be with him a darling, then in the end he will remain with her. He got drunk at the wedding, and then they lived long and unhappy lives, tormented by an unfulfilling relationship that was built on a poor foundation.

Don't remember? That's right, they don't make movies like this. And they don’t take them off because true love looks completely different. Love gives people inspiration that encourages them to do amazing things to meet their chosen one and be with him. This is what makes great movies. And every love relationship that you admire radiates some kind of power - it is this power that you hope to feel in your own personal life. And the more you value yourself, the more likely you are to build relationships endowed with this power. Now read about ridiculous male excuses, laugh and ... don't believe them anymore.

You deserve it.

1. HE DOESN'T LIKE YOU SO MUCH BECAUSE HE DOESN'T ASK YOU ON A DATE
Because if he likes you, trust me, he will definitely make an appointment with you.

A lot of women said, "Greg, the world is run by men." Wow! Sounds like we are very determined natures. Then why, pray tell, do you think that we are not capable of doing such a simple act as dialing a phone number and asking you out on a date? It seems like sometimes you think we're "too timid" or "just got through a bad romance." So let me remind you: men enjoy getting what they want. (Especially after a hard day's work that went into ruling the world.) If we need you, we'll find you. If you think that the man did not have time to pay attention to you, then take the length of time during which you paid attention to him and divide this number in half.

And now go on an exciting journey through the pages of this book, and perhaps your perception of life will change in many ways.

We arranged the questions we were asked and the answers we were able to collect, according to a simple scheme: question - answer. If you're lucky, after reading the questions, you will immediately understand what it is about: about the excuses that women come up with in their unenviable position. Just in case you're unlucky, we've given each story an apt title to help you get to the heart of the matter.

Excuse like "Maybe he doesn't want to ruin our friendship"
Dear Greg!

I'm strangely disappointed. I have a friend whom I have known for about ten years. He lives in another city, but recently came here on business, and we met to have dinner together. During this dinner, I suddenly had the feeling that I was on a date. He openly flirted with me. He even said to me when he was paying the bill, “So, are you a full-time model now?” Is that flirting? We agreed to meet again soon, and well, Greg, I'm disappointed because it's been two weeks and he still hasn't called. Should I call him? Maybe he is nervous because he is afraid to turn friendships into something more? Is there any way to push him? Isn't that what friends are for?

Jody

From Greg's archives:

Dear girl friend!

Two weeks is two weeks, unless, of course, we compare them with a period of ten years. It was then that he decided whether he wanted to date a model or a girl who looked like a model. Can you push him by being his friend? You can push away, my friend: you will soon see for yourself that the first check on your part will not lead to a return call. And if your dinner date really seemed special to him, then he had two whole weeks to think and decide that he didn’t like you so much. And here's the truth: Guys don't mind giving up a friendship if it can lead to sex,