Greetings, dear ladies! Today I will answer your question, how to give a blowjob to her husband. The question itself is a good one, because it indicates your desire to develop and improve your sexual relationship with your husband.
And with these lips she will kiss my children!?

Literally 20 years ago, blowjob was considered by many people as a perversion and an element from the repertoire of prostitutes. And not only many women thought so, but also men. American sexologist and author of many interesting books about sex G.Masterton writes that in America oral sex is not particularly common in marital relations.
Americans are very committed to family values, unlike Russians, and a wife is sacred to them, and first of all, she is the mother of his children. And how will he, a respectable father, offer the mother of his children to take this thing in her mouth? And then she will kiss his children with these lips? No, it's just not possible!

But the idea itself is so tempting... And the American is looking for a way out and finds it. He goes either to a prostitute or acquires a mistress. And, as they say, both the wolves are full and the sheep are safe. Everyone is happy and satisfied. But until the wife somehow guesses that the husband goes to the left. And try to convince her that he hid it, kept her holy purity for the sake of their family. As a rule, women do not appreciate such care of their husbands. Ungrateful!
So, it is very good that you do not want to be in such a situation and are thinking about how to give a blowjob to your husband yourself, and not delegate it to some other woman.

Uncertainty is very difficult, the first steps
Those women who have been giving a blowjob to their husband for a long time will not even understand such a question - how to do a blowjob correctly, since it seems to them to be a rather elementary matter.
But the fact of the matter is that the first step is difficult. And this is not even a technical difficulty. It's just that this is a new business, and it is not clear from which end to approach the beginning of this unusual business.
It is much easier when the husband himself asks for it. And it sort of removes responsibility for the result from you.
Let's talk today mainly about how to remove fears and possible negative emotions that may arise when you give a blowjob to your husband.

What is useful in porn videos
First you need to get used to the type of blowjob on the screen. Many women have a negative attitude towards pornography. And it even seems to be somehow positive. quality for a woman. Although, in fact, it indicates an anti-sexual program embedded in the subconscious, which will not allow her to create sexual harmony in relations with her partner.
It's good that you set out to learn how to give a good blowjob to your husband. But let's do a little test for you. Go online right now, find some porn site, and find blowjob scenes. And listen to your emotions. What are they? Do you like these shots, excite? Or disgusting? Or indifferent?

You need to make sure that you do not have any negative emotions from these frames. To achieve this is not difficult at all. You just need to watch these frames until these negative emotions disappear. And for this, 1 hour will be quite enough for you.
Porn film: after 10 minutes you want to go home and do it; and after another 10 minutes you want to leave and never do this in your life. Erica Jong
But remember that you should not learn from porn films how to give a blowjob to your husband. The purpose of these films is completely different - not to teach someone something, but to make the audience feel sexually aroused. And I'll tell you a secret - all pornography is created for onanists (against whom I have nothing), so that they can fantasize not only under their fantasies, but also under live pictures.

By the way, not only men who do not have sexual partners are engaged in masturbation to porn, but also those who have wives. And not only there are wives, but these wives expect sexual activity from their husbands, and for a long time they no longer talk about a headache. And the husband is playing for time in various ways, and waiting for his wife to fall asleep in order to do what he loves at the computer. But about this is another article, and now we are talking about how to give a blowjob to her husband.

The main emotions of women
So, you need to get used to blowjob porn videos. But there is something positive in these videos, which is worth learning. These are the emotions that women show on the screen. Naturally, they do not feel them.
But in a real blowjob, if you want to please your husband, you must have these emotions. Positive emotions, emotions of joy, pleasure, excitement and enjoyment. And you should show these emotions to your husband.
In a blowjob for a man, it is not so much the technique that is important, but it is important for him to see the pleasure with which a woman gives a blowjob.

A man can apply for blowjob services and a prostitute who is fluent in blowjob technique. But after all, a man will know that she is doing it for money. He will get a certain physiological pleasure. Even experience an orgasm. But an orgasm for a man in sex means little. It is no coincidence that men call orgasm an everyday term - finished.
So, conclusion number 1 for women who dream of learning how to give a blowjob to their husband - make a blowjob with pleasure and show this pleasure to your husband.

What can prevent you from experiencing the pleasure of a blowjob

Partner hygiene
On one of the forums, one woman complained that her husband constantly demands a blowjob from her, but at the same time neglects personal hygiene. Once she said about it, but it was enough for exactly a week. And she didn't dare to tell him anymore.
It's a paradox - sucking a stinky dick is easier than telling your husband to go wash up.

Why not take him to the bathroom and wash him? Why not turn this action into an element of sexual play, from which you yourself will enjoy?
But the trouble is that many people take sex very seriously. More precisely, they treat sex as some kind of serious matter. Well, that's how society and morality inspire.

I could offer a universal remedy for all sexual problems :code83 . In addition, if you master the method that I will talk about, you can perfectly master the art of blowjob.
This means is to learn to treat sex as a game of adults. But by itself, this advice is worthless. And I'm not going to stop at that advice. I want to offer you a practical tool that will help you change your attitude towards sex. This is my book "Sex is the game of adults!" game and virtual School of sexual harmony.

In the meantime, I will continue the topic of blowjob to my husband.
So, I have said about one element that can make you feel bad about blowjobs. This is my husband's hygiene. Perhaps someone may have negative emotions and excessive vegetation in this place. So do what is best for you with determination. Without any omissions and embarrassment.
Now point 2, which may cause your displeasure.

Deep Throat
In some cases, during a blowjob, a man is very fond of, and begins to imitate movements similar to sexual intercourse, trying to drive his penis deeper into the woman's throat. Although it's possible only in certain positions. If he lies on his back, then he will not succeed. Therefore, you can avoid these unpleasant consequences by simply positioning your partner in this position.
Another question is if he will ask you for exactly such deep penetration, which he most likely saw in porn films. But as I said, what we see in porn movies is very far from real sex.
Sensitive points are located in a man at the base of the head, and with deep penetration, they simply have nothing to contact with. The pleasure can only be from the feeling that he drives the penis so deeply into the partner's throat, but not from any physical sensations.

But if you wish, you can also master the technique of deep blowjob.
And now I'm moving on to the third element that can make you feel bad about blowjobs. It is the smell and taste of semen.

What is your relationship with sperm?
Men themselves do not really like their sperm. And in any case, they will never agree (with rare exceptions) to taste their sperm. Perhaps that is why they appreciate it when women take his sperm into their mouths and even swallow it.
According to statistics, of those women who give a blowjob to their partner, 40% of women allow their partner to finish in their mouth. Swallow while semen 25%. The figure is, of course, conditional. But nevertheless, they indicate that women do not like the sperm of a man.

But this attitude towards sperm can become a fly in the ointment.
My wife never refuses me a blowjob. But after I cum in her mouth, she immediately runs to the bathroom to spit out the sperm and rinse her mouth. And I feel like a sadist and a pervert, feeding my wife such

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К слову, вы знали, что в Древнем Египте минет возводился в статус божественных ласк? Да, древние египтяне считали оральные ласки чем-то возвышенным. Что ж, в этом нам остается только следовать их примеру!

Женское мнение

Девушки, а как слабый пол относится к оральным ласкам? Специально для вас мы собрали подборку мнений пользовательниц Интернета, которые согласились рассказать, что им нравится в минете, а что раздражает.

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«Не могу конкретно сказать почему, но я просто обожаю делать минет, причем возбуждаюсь не меньше мужчины, вот и сейчас думаю об этом и уже возбудилась. Раньше по молодости не понимала, как это можно делать, зато сейчас – меня за уши не оттянешь»

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«Люблю делать, но очень раздражает, когда партнер пытается двигать моей головой. Нет, если это оговорено заранее, это одно дело, но такая спонтанная инициатива – явно не по мне»

«Сам процесс ничего так, но вот когда кончают в рот без предупреждения, это ужасно. Парни, не делайте так!»

Мужчины, запоминайте, что раздражает женщин в минете:

Затянувшийся минет не нравится 86% женщин.

Притягивание партнерши за волосы, уши, надавливание на затылок – это не переносят 44% женщин.

Неожиданная эякуляция раздражает 32%.