Much has been written about anal sex. And many, looking at the abundance of information and increased interest in this type of sexual practices, consider it to be quite ordinary, without which sexual life will not be considered successful. But it is not. Anal sex is considered more of an exception to the rule than an integral part of love games.

Anal sex is considered sexual intercourse in which the penis, dildo or strap-on of one partner is inserted into the anus of the other. Doctors warn that this practice can be hazardous to health. The personal attitude of sexologists to anal sex is different, although this type of sex is not classified as perversion.

Who has anal sex?

Interest in obtaining pleasure through anal intercourse has national characteristics. Not so long ago, the popular resource Pornhub published statistics on video views on various topics. According to these statistics, Russian men show an abnormal interest in pornographic videos that show anal sex (83%). Unlike Russians, our compatriots, according to the same resource, are more interested in sex with mature partners.

Nevertheless, interest in anal sex in our country is currently quite high. According to sexologists, sexual toys for “rear” fun are now in great demand. The assortment of sex shops includes butt plugs (with and without tails), balls, anal dildos, special lubricants for anal sex. Men, by the way, are also not averse to trying “peppercorns”. Yes, their physiological device is more focused on getting pleasure in this way. Women do not get prostate massage through the anus, and men, they say, enjoy it.

According to sexologists, the interest in anal sex is associated with increased density of the muscles of the anus. Due to this, the penis is compressed more strongly, the sensations are sharper. In addition, for some men, this becomes a kind of unconscious desire to subjugate a woman (“I want you to be all mine”). There is also a certain percentage of women who have an orgasm while having anal sex, but this percentage is quite small. Most of the fairer sex prefer vaginal and oral sex, although and often yield to their partner, so as not to offend or hold back, proving their love.

Anal sex is a dangerous pleasure

Doctors warn: anal sex can be fraught with various bad consequences. The mucous membrane of the anus is quite sensitive and can be easily injured. Because of this, unprotected anal sex carries the risk of HIV infection. In addition, during anal sex, there is a risk of introducing E. coli into the vagina, which is fraught with colpitis. Anal penetration is also fraught with stretching and relaxation of the sphincter muscles, which subsequently threatens with fecal incontinence and gaping anus. Not to mention the risk of getting hemorrhoids and rectal prolapse.

How to “teach” a woman to anal sex

If you do decide to try anal sex with your partner or partner and do everything right and thoughtfully, this can be one of the highlights of your sexual experience. I have identified a few basic rules that you need to follow so that this experience is not remembered by pain and disappointment:

Have anal sex with your favorite and loving partners. Unless you’re an anal nymphomaniac, it takes a certain degree of intimacy with your partner to enjoy anal penetration. A loving man, as a rule, is more responsible for the health of his partner and treats her very carefully. At the same time, a loving woman trusts her partner more and relaxes faster.

Do not start anal sex without proper preparation. First, before his penis is inside the ring of anal muscles, it is necessary to make an enema. Yes, this procedure destroys all romance, but believe me, it is needed. Secondly, there should be a lot (a lot!) of high-quality lubricant. Thirdly, you can not enter the anus without a condom.

Start having anal sex at the stage of strong arousal. You should excite your partner before you start doing something with her anus. It is best to artificially create a coupling: orgasm – anal. That is, you warm up your partner, bring her to orgasm and, at the peak of pleasure, carefully insert the penis (finger, dildo) into her anus. If you do this several times, she will have a positive motivation for anal penetration.

Take precautions. I have already written about You can’t “go” into the anus with a condom. If the penis has already entered the anus, it is also impossible to pull it out and enter the vagina. All actions must be performed as slowly and carefully as possible so as not to damage the anus mucosa.

Bright anal orgasms to you! But it’s better to still treat this as a rare holiday, and not as an everyday practice.